The most important thing we do Published Aug. 26, 2009 By Col. Gary Goldstone 375th Airlift Wing commander SCOTT AIR FORCE BASE, Ill. -- There's not a single day that goes by where I don't have Airmen on my mind. I think about the ones who have deployed and who are now serving on the frontlines, oftentimes in harsh conditions and in harm's way. I've said goodbye and have wished them well as they left, always having a prayer in my heart for their safe return. It's not an easy thing to say goodbye, not knowing what lies ahead. It's scary for family members and can be overwhelming for servicemembers, especially if this is their first deployment. Thankfully we have family and friends who understand--they may not like it--but they understand why we leave and why we dedicate ourselves to this honorable service. These families are indeed our secret weapon and what they do to support our Airmen helps keep America's lamp burning bright. I remember even as a second lieutenant deployed to Desert Storm the effect that my wife, Mary, had on my success. I know I had her complete support, and I was proud of her for all the work she did back home to cheer and comfort other spouses and families who were worried or concerned. Mary teamed-up with many other spouses and families, which served as a catalyst for our secret weapon. Our families are a true force multiplier. We've all seen people in the war zone who cannot function because they're distraught over what's happening at home. The ability to focus on our assigned missions and not be distracted is what ensures mission success. Strong families help ensure mission execution more than they realize. We should all take a moment to thank our families and reflect upon their impact on our USAF's ability to Fly, Fight, and Win! Having these strong family relationships is so important because every day we are reminded not to take it for granted. Since I've been in command, Aug. 18, 2008, there have been 34 fallen servicemembers who have come to Scott Air Force Base bound for their final resting place. These fallen heroes are our blood and treasure, and it's difficult to watch as their caskets are transferred from an aircraft to a waiting hearse. I know I am reminded of the important things in life ... and the important people in my life as I watch brothers, fathers, battle buddies and wives escort their loved ones home. It is crystal clear that we must not take our families for granted. We must nurture those relationships with our children and make the most of every day. They are our secret weapon! I've said it before, and it bears repeating, that we all must find ways to balance our lives with the work we do and the lives we choose to live. Because, when all is said and done, what will be our legacy? What will be remembered about us? Will we have left this world a better place? Those 34 men and women have left the world a better place, even though there is emptiness now for their families. But, perhaps knowing that they died honorably and in the service of their country will provide some measure of comfort for them. These are the things I think about when I'm asking us to make sure our Airmen are trained and ready, and understand the mission. It's what's on my mind as I ask you to take time to be with your families as you work hard for your country. Being in today's Air Force is no easy task and there are many inconveniences and sacrifices required. I want you to know that I appreciate your efforts and especially the support of your families. Together we'll work on keeping the right balance, ensuring the mission gets done, and making sure those who do deploy are the best trained and equipped and prepared Airmen possible ... because it's the most important thing we do. Air Power!